Kelan ka mag-aasawa?
Woman shaming is so real! Growing up in our culture everything becomes normal kahit hindi naman dapat. Napakahirap maging babae sa kultura natin kasi you are always not enough or you are always the villain. Magsisimula sya while you are still studying people will start judging at sometimes wala talaga silang filter, I remember being told before "Ikaw eh mabubuntis at di na mag-aaral diba?" imagine hearing that at 14. Tapos kapag working kana at may boyfriend lahat naman sila kukulitin ka kung kelan ka mag-aasawa and worse kapag matagal na kayo ito naman maririnig mo "madami akong kilalang ganyan sobrang tagal di naman sa simbahan natuloy naghiwalay din" or "bakit kaya ayaw ka pakasalan ng boyfriend mo baka may hinahanap pa yan sa iba" oh diba! At kapag kinasal na kayo syempre yung paborito ng lahat "kelan kayo mag-aanak?". Honestly I thought it will all stop kapag may anak nako pero it did not 🥹 after I gave birth to my son the immediate questio